If you are an abuser, or your actions match the warning signs, know that people want to help you. If you truly care for someone, you will not allow him or her to be abused, by you or anyone else. Talk to someone you trust. Ask his/her honest opinion about your behavior. This could be a close friend, family member, or someone you respect, like a teacher or counselor at school. There are people and organizations that are equipped to help address your issues of power and control. It won't be easy, but it will ultimately allow you to be part of a healthy relationship. Hotlines Community Programs Links